My girlfriend thinks I'm better looking than her but I think she's better. What do you think lol
Yes for me
No for my girlfriend
Dont choose me just to be nice, I won't be offended If you pic my girlfriend. Also if you're a girl don't pic me just because you're straight, just choose who you think is better from an objective standpoint
We are all vain people. Narcissistic. We are.
My answer is boring. You both look the same. Hard to judge opposite sexes but yeah.
One thing I would do is stop relying on.one picture to have people make a judgment. You are really good looking in this picture but that's not a good way to rate yourself for many reasons Maybe it's a great picture. Maybe you are photogenic or vice versa. Your side profile picture is not as flattering.
I would post up some different pictures in order to get a better assessment
Bro people coming up to you in public to tell you how good looking you are is absoulte bs. I mean think about it. If you saw a beautiful woman walking down the street would you just go up to her and say "you're really hot". It takes a ton of nerve to do that and not everyone has that.
The second part is a bit tricky. If you're really good looking you'll often get stared at by people, but it's usually more subtly and when you aren't looking. This is for people to avoid coming off as creepy. There are some who have no problem openly staring at you when you're looking but those aren't the norm.
But to answer your question yes. The first part is more rare but I had a random girl in class once say to me "you're so cute" and there was also a random girl I heard say to her friend when she walked by "that is a hot guy". I've also been told Im cute by a few gay guys and multiple straight men have told me things like "you must get a lot of girls".
I do notice people looking at me a lot in public, but its really easy to miss if I'm not paying attention. If I notice them looking, theyll usually quickly look away. In high school tho a ton of girls would openly stare at me when I could see them. I think this is much more commonground than other places such as the store, mabye because they go to school with you and so they're noticeably trying to get your attention so they have a chance at going out with you.
Here is something else: I think for the most part us guys are pretty good at judging good looking dudes. But not as good as we think.
Have you guys ever heard from a girl that that guy is hot. It doesn't happen all the time, but sometimes I'm like are you blind !. Like I cant see what they find cute/hot
for the life of me.
And vice versa. Sometimes I think a dude is all that and they are like sorry. He looks like a monkey or whatever.
So I guess it's just the way girls judge.
Also it's the same for us. I had girls say ' she looks like a skank'. But im like ughh no. She's got it going on.
Point is we don't always see ourselves as women do.